The Difference, Who You Are and Who You Wish to Be

Who You Are and Who You Wish to Be

This was such an amazing video by @GaryVaynerchuk that I had to REpost it so that young folks get an idea about the grind, the process, the way towards success.

There are “Magic Bullets,” there are quick fixes, there are dramatic turnarounds, there are get-rich-quick scenarios, however, those are anomalies. They are not the rule. The rule always speaks to us by its number or mathematics!

More people find success by going through the grind than those who luck upon riches either by marriage, by inheritance, by lottery, or by finding the right opportunity and being gifted situations that carve a no-brain-no-work path towards success.

The Millennials, this younger generation, are able to witness people their age, like @MarkZuckerberg obtain success and attain massive success on high levels, and they desire to emulate and have that success.

Zuck Causes Confusion (his Type of success does)

How many Facebook companies are there? Like ONE, and that is out of a few million or thousand competitors. Zuck causes confusion (Zuckerberg’s success). This is why this video by @GaryVee is so powerful. We have to distinguish or understand the difference between Who We Are and who we wish to be.

We have to understand that the transformation does not take place overnight. Although when it does take place it will appear to have happened overnight. But those of us who live through it understand that there was a grind, grind, grind; and process, process, process that brought forth or manifested the transformation.

Enjoy the video leave a comment that you let me know how it made you feel.

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Chris Brown Points Gun at a Female Accuser

 Chris Brown Points Gun at a Female Accuser

Singer and entertainer Chris Brown has got himself in trouble with the law by allegedly pointing a firearm at a woman who was at his home.

According to the woman, they were looking at jewelry and Brown became annoyed and pointed a gun in her face and demanded she leave his palace immediately.

The woman said she believed Brown would have killed her.

Obtain Wise Counsel #1

Chris Brown Points Gun at a Female

How could Chris Brown avoided this situation entirely or partially? First he could have not allowed so many people in his palace.

Nevertheless, Mr. Brown is an entertainer, we like to believe that means he entertains on stage only. No! This means, he has to entertain us in the news, at his palace, on the road, and anywhere else.

Counsel number one, don’t have a party with too many people at your home, if so make sure it is a control party environment.

Obtain Wise Counsel #2

When things escalate in your home, and you’re the celebrity or a targeted figure, allow your security team or official police to handle the situation.

The world operates by authority. Whoever has power gives the authority, and those authorized to execute power have the right.

Mr. Brown may have had the right to bear arms, but in using wise counsel and intelligent judgment, and good sense, it is wise to voice his concerns or frustrations to his security team and allow them to handle the situation to his pleasing.

Counsel number two, allow people of authority to handle situations

Chris Brown Points Gun at a Female (OWC) does not know who is right or wrong in this situation because OWC was not there, nor do we care to place judgment. OWC only gives counsel to Mr. Brown and people who may find themselves in Mr. Brown’s situation.

Chris Brown Points Gun at a Female

Wise Counsel for the young lady: be wary of being in the presence of one with a record such as Mr. Brown.

We do not doubt Chris Brown has made a transformation and grown from his situation with Miss Rihanna, still these things are record, and unfortunately for the entertainer (Chris Brown), he is still actively in the aggressive environment, which is the industry of entertaining.

Read article here about Chris pulling a gun…

This is our counsel, if you’d like personal counsel to survive and thrive in life, please continue to visit our website and read, plus apply the counsel to your life.


10 Ways to Sleep Better Starting Tonight

10 Ways to Sleep Better Starting Tonight

This is a great podcast by author Shawn Stevenson, the author of Sleep Smarter. He’s interviewed by Lewis Howes, both guys have great stories. At any rate, sleep is very vital to our overall health. Sleep directly corresponds with our energy levels during the day, so it makes a lot of sense to control this so we don’t have to use too many stimulants to helps us go through the day.

In this video, Stevenson goes through 10 ways to sleep better starting tonight. It is wise counsel we can use right away… I know I will.

Which one will you do today to get a better night of sleep?

New Psychology that Causes Happiness and Success

New Psychology that Causes Happiness and Success

Carol Dweck, psychologist, talks about fixed and growth mindsets. She says that the key to happiness is in the desire to continue to learn and grow. Growth mindset is what keeps kids and adults happy, and keeps them striving for success.

The New Psychology of Success

Carol Dweck shows the difference between two different praises (process and ability) and that process praise and ability praise have totally different results. I hope you enjoyed the video and you are ready to use the new psychology that causes happiness and success, and if you have children, you apply them in your interaction with them.

Take Action Today Please

Take Action Today Please

Gary Vee tells it like it is, for you to take action today, please, just take some form of action towards your goals, towards what you love, towards righteousness, towards helping someone. STOP caring what people are going to say about your effort,  your goals, your desires, just DO!

I’m gonna, needs to be done away with…

Goals and Success Relationship

Goals and Success Relationship

The best way to take a look at our goals and success, we must take a DETAILED look at our results. This requires being truthful about where you are and where you want to go. People lie about where they are. It is the reason why the American Idol show starts out humorous before it gets serious.

Many contestants have lied to themselves and have been lied to by others about where they are vocally. This misrepresentation of where we are is so vital to our goals and success. Goals and success relationship is imperative to our results, and our results tell a great story. Thank you Mr. Bob Proctor, enjoy the video.